~ He just not that into you ~

I've been waiting for so long to watch this movie. Shamed that i downloaded it and no watch in cinema as i said earlier =.=
I knew this movie when i wandering on the internet 2 months ago. Rarely to see some review said that you will have a new perspective of a relationship after you watched it. Although most of the people who commented it are gals, this no means guys cant go watch it and get something from it.
Well, the movie has several story lines with different interconnected characters. I think the best part is the conversation between gals and their sisters and guys with their brothers. The secrets or myths of the relationship have been revealing through every scenes of the movie. The story breaks into into few chapters:
1. If He's not calling you
2. If He's not marrying you
3. If She;s not sleeping with you
4. If He's sleeping with someone else

And here is some quotes I felt really interesting ~
Gigi: We are all programmed to believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk that means he likes you.
(Dont think so ~)
Gigi: How stupid is it that a girl has to wait for a guy's call anyway, right?
(somehow is guy waiting for the reply and it do looks stupid too)

Alex : If a guy doesn't call you, he doesn't want to call you.
(This truth because he is notinterested. )

Alex: Hey, Kelli Ann. Uh, did I get any calls?
Kelli Ann: Since you asked me 11 mins ago, no, not a lot of phone traffic.
Alex: [obsessively checks phone for signal]
Kelli Ann: Oh, my God.
Alex: What?
Kelli Ann: What's her name?
Alex: Who?
Kelli Ann: The girl... Alex.
Alex: There's no girl.
Kelli Ann: You can't hide it, man. I know strung out, and YOU are strung out.
Alex: Please.
Kelli Ann: This is amazing. You can't focus. Right? Jumping every time your phone rings. Checking your e-mail a hundred times a day. Wishing you could write songs.
Alex: [laughs]
Kelli Ann: No. Feeling the need to bring up her name in random conversations. It's always the same and it has happened to you, my friend.
Alex: Shit.
Kelli Ann: Welcome to my world, asshole. Let me get the door.
(A typical case when you crush on someone)

Mary: I had this guy leave me a voicemail at work, so I called him at home, and then he emailed me to my BlackBerry, and so I texted to his cell, and now you just have to go around checking all these different portals just to get rejected by seven different technologies.
Mary: It's exhausting.
(This is sad...)

Like the previous movie i watched The Bride War, its ending quote is good to create some changes in personal perspective

Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up: if a boy punches you he likes you, never try to trim your own bangs, and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. every movie we see, every story we're told implores us to wait for it: the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. but sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. how to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. and maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. maybe the happy ending is just moving on. or maybe the happy ending is this: knowing after all the unreturned phone calls and broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment... you never gave up hope.

Somehow, somewhere the one you like leave you or reject you
Not because you not good enough to him/her, he/she just not the right person written in Destiny.
The process maybe painful and torturing but it make you more mature or train you match to the one you deserve for the rest of your life.

Oh ya !! Today is Mother day
Happy mother day to every mother especially my MUm